Accountability

I cannot stress how important the concept is of accountability.  Lack of accountability holds us by the leash to the motor of our goals, and we cannot let that go no matter what.  As long as we hold this leash to our necks, we shall never fall behind nor shall we ever head back to the old ways that never worked.  It is up to each and every one of us to uphold to the highest of our standards, and to always look up to the heavens as our personal eternal limit.

For as long as we hold ourselves up by mulling over the small inconveniences of daily life and the lack of something due to another action, and from thereon attempt to forego any attempt to desecrate the absence of any comfort, we shall see the future as a dull and grimy one incomplete for the lack of achievement, challenge, success.  It is in our challenges that our happiest  moments are defined, when other people define us.  It is in the challenges that the true character of who we are arises or perhaps transcends the old character we once were as the past occurrences that once seemed challenging seem as simple discovering our own two feet.  It is in our challenges that we discover the greatness and potential within others to do the same.

I write this because my father lacks the clarity, the personal frame of reference by which to view the world.  It is from his attitude toward my personal lack of clarity and focus toward my grades in high school which cause my action for repetual writing, for my grades, however short the shortcomings may be, were not held properly accountable for the situation.  I see in my future great events happening, and those great events requiring the challenge that I foresaw, and leash to the motor I require.  My leash was taken off the motor today for my father's convenience this day, and so I wish to convey to you the importance to you that being a true parent is being a true accountability-taker.

The true parent understands the purpose of punishment and reward.  What is it?  One might ask.  It is through reward that positive actions are affirmed again and again and are thereby repeated to produce favorable results.  Stemming its opposite, punishment, is used for, put mathematically, the inverse of the reward.  It takes the negative actions and poses it very much like the affirmations beforehand, but in its opposite, the negative way.  Now, caution must be advised for la peine excés, punishment, for the balance of praise and scorn/removal of equities surely shall be the determination between failure and success for the child.

When the child has deemed his or herself irresponsible through lack of responsibility, id est they fail to comply with the rules and boundaries you have set for them (and with them), then you must clearly follow the punishment previously implied to the letter, for failure to hold accountability is failure for them to comprehend in the coming days the importance of self-held accountability.

Next of all, most importantly, beyond all others and this, is for the parent to be accountable him or herself.  It is through this that the message may be conveyed through all means of human contact and communication. Through visible action, a person will procure more message and meaning than through words alone.  It is physical example through which we see the providence existent on turf on which man exists.  It is through this alone that most, if not all, deceit in the world shall be bypassed; hence, it is by this that children shall be taught and maturing adults shall experience